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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

something im literally JUST coming to terms with myself as a queer nb person unlearning INTENSE toxic masculinity is: it literally doesn’t matter what i actually identify as? and i never ever have to ever explain that to anyone. and the expression of myself never has nor could EVER be defined in a way that isn’t ever changing and shifting like a planet. and if anyone is mad about me being happy and not hurting anyone in the process; they are too insecure and are losers who i don’t need to use my time on because i’ve spent 20 years doing that and got nowhere.

i know i rb posts that say it a lot and it has honestly helped me realize this within myself lately. its so liberating and im becoming unafraid of peoples thoughts of me and how i will change more over time, if anything im excited for it now.

im learning to love myself :))

Pinned Post august 2022 thomas journal
trancegnder
effemimaniac

autistic people of a particular flavour will master the art of expressing mundane sentiment in amusing ways because their most successful jokes as children were primarily accidental. and when you realise you have that spark of a weirdo it's just a matter of intentionality and comic linguistic optimisation to make yourself a regular sayer of things in funny ways.

dorisdank

Maybe you're just hot?

effemimaniac

I mean it helps also

sirhro
balaclava-trismegistus

Jesus fucking Christ dude. A house show in Minneapolis got shot up. Two guys walked up, unloaded into the crowd, and ran off. One dead and six injured.

balaclava-trismegistus

Yeah. Okay. News stories were kinda making it sound like it was more Senseless Minneapolis Urban Violence, but folks that were there are saying this seems like a targeted attack on the venue and the scene for being trans positive. My fucking hometown scene got hit by a fucking terror attack.

balaclava-trismegistus
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Give em money. Everyone involved really needs it.

sirhro
captaindibbzy

I think it's important to let guys be gender non conforming without telling them they're a girl, cause actually misgendering people is still shit even when you are pro trans. "You're a girl, an egg waiting to crack, and that's ok" how about you are a boy and a man and it's still ok if you want to do something that doesn't align with traditional ideals of your gender. You can still be he/him in a skirt and makeup.