something im literally JUST coming to terms with myself as a queer nb person unlearning INTENSE toxic masculinity is: it literally doesn’t matter what i actually identify as? and i never ever have to ever explain that to anyone. and the expression of myself never has nor could EVER be defined in a way that isn’t ever changing and shifting like a planet. and if anyone is mad about me being happy and not hurting anyone in the process; they are too insecure and are losers who i don’t need to use my time on because i’ve spent 20 years doing that and got nowhere.
i know i rb posts that say it a lot and it has honestly helped me realize this within myself lately. its so liberating and im becoming unafraid of peoples thoughts of me and how i will change more over time, if anything im excited for it now.
im learning to love myself :))















